Not So Lonely

WARNING: Purchasing the Los Lonely Boys CD can be hazardous to your health. It was to mine. I experienced pain similar to when I’d broken my foot. My left shoe felt too small. My foot felt heavy and weak.

As I drove along, with my car stereo blasting my new purchase at an appropriate singing volume (if it’s loud enough, I can imaging I’m singing on key), I was unconsciously tapping, no, stomping, my left foot to the beat.

I have learned to control my foot-tapping. If only I could sing on key.

Highly recommended. Even my kids like it!

The Rain Comes Down With A Pitter-Patter-Pit

When the Asian tsunami struck, one of my pastors was in Australia. The massive devastation, the enormous loss of life, prompted some soul searching and resulted in her making five resolutions. Her third resolution was simply stated: obey God more. To illustrate the point, she referred to Jesus’ story of the wise and foolish builders.

24Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. 26But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. 27The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.” —Matt: 7:24-27 (NIV)

When you obey God, a single set of principles governs your behavior and you become a whole, real whole person. You build on one rock.

When you compartmentalize your life, you act differently around different people. You follow different rules depending on the circumstances. Rather than being one, real person, you are multiple, fake people. (It’s interesting how duplicitous is synonymous with fake.) You don’t build on one rock; you build on a bunch of little rocks. And what is sand, but a bunch of little rocks.

I’ve heard this story explained many times, but this was the first time I’d heard building on the sand be described as being compartmentalized and fake. It spoke to me. Maybe it will speak to you, too.

Missing Mission

Do you have a personal mission statement? I don’t. I don’t even write New Year’s resolutions.

I ask because I’m preparing to teach the teen lesson at church tomorrow. The materials I’m studying aim to enable the students to:

  1. Discern the value of living by well thought-out principles.
  2. Develop a mission statement that reflects their core values and goals.
  3. Encourage others to be guided by goals that have eternal outcomes.

The second item and its associated activity caught my attention. If having a mission statement is worth my teaching, it should be worth my doing.

I understand the general principles that direct my life. They are the same principles that guide other Christian’s lives. Is it sacrilegious to say that those Christian principles are not sufficient, that they should be supplemented with a personal mission statement? I hope not. After some thought, it appears there is benefit to a personal mission statement. A personal mission statement can consider my my specific skills and interests. I need not limit my goals to what I can accomplish now. Growth is possible.

I’m not so naive to believe that possessing a personal mission statement will change my life. I’ve worked for various organizations having missions statements with limited impact on their day-to-day operations. The benefit of a mission statement is in its making, in its updating.

Update: This evening, I visited Tod Bolsinger’s blog, “It Takes a Church…,” (about which I blogged yesterday) and clicked on his book, Show Time: Living Down Hypocrisy By Living Out The Faith. On the resulting page was a link to Hugh Hewitt’s book, In, But Not Of: A Guide to Christian Ambition. It’s relevance to my study topic is unmistakable. I was already planning on getting Hewitt’s book, Blog: Understanding the Information Reformation That’s Changing Your World. It looks like another purchase is in order.


Some people live to eat; others eat to live. Although I probably fit more in the latter group, there are some foods that tempt me to convert to the other side. Tabouli is one of them.

I blog about tabouli because when I arrived home today after a long work week, there was a big bowl of tabouli in the refrigerator waiting for me. What a way to start the weekend!

Here is the tabouli recipe I like. I recommend using a food processor to chop the parsley and substituting the green onions for the onion. I can never wait the recommended four hours…



  • 4 fresh tomatoes, chopped
  • 2 peeled cucumbers, chopped
  • 1 medium onion, minced fine
  • 3 heads parsley, chopped fine
  • 1/3 cup mint flakes
  • 1 cup cracked wheat (bulgur)
  • 2 teaspoon salt
  • 1/2 cup lemon juice
  • 1 cup olive oil


Place the wheat in bowl, cover it with warm water, and set it aside until cool. Then squeeze the moisture out of the wheat with your hands. Toss the wheat with thee chopped vegetables, salt, lemon juice, and olive oil. Let stand in refrigerator at least four hours before serving.


If desired, add one half green pepper, minced fine. You can substitute four green onions for the medium onion.

Blog for Jesus

Bottom line: There is no more effective, cost efficient, time efficient and growing way to communicate something as important as the truth of Christianity than through a whole hosts of pastors and teachers blogging. And, if Hugh [Hewitt] is correct, this is only the beginning of a whole ‘reformation.’

Tod Bolsinger

Tod Bolsinger, pastor and author, encourages other pastors to blog for Jesus.

I hope he’s successful.

Shuffling Along

Apple is the only company I know that can consistently get buzz from crippled (yet stylish) products. Need an example? Take the iPod Shuffle (please… ba-dum-tish). Looking to capture the low-end media player market, Apple introduced the flash-based Shuffle without a display.

Like Apple’s one-button mouse, using the Shuffle is simple. Want to know what song is playing? Just listen. Want to know what song will be playing next? Wait and listen. Want to select a different song? Push the buttons and listen. It’s the MP3 player equivalent of the weather rock.

Rather than be embarrassed, Apple is increasing the lack of control and calling it a feature. Apple brags that iTunes can randomly load songs from your library onto your Shuffle. After all, why be surprised merely by the order of songs when you can also be surprised by what songs are on your Shuffle?

With the Shuffle’s 240-song capacity, random music programming could make sense for a generation that’s been trained to thumb its way from one crappy reality show to the next six-pack ab-exerciser infomercial. Don’t like the song Shuffle chose for you? Click!

So, do I hate iPods? No, as I wrote earlier, I received a 20-GB iPod for Christmas and still love it. I’ve been cruising the iPod sites looking for ways to integrate the iPod even more into my life. Necessary additions seem to be some way to connect to my home and car sound systems. I’m not concerned whether I should have waited for Apple’s next insanely-great product. Should I ever have Shuffle-envy, Mark Husson has lobotomy instructions.

The Power of Small

Rolled eyes. Slammed doors. Heavy sighs. Shaking heads. Stomping off.

What we do is louder than what we say–it’s common knowledge. Yet when challenged, we don’t admit to our nonverbal messages. “What?! What did I say? I didn’t say that.”

Not all nonverbals are negative. We wink, nod, smile, lean forward, gesture, and make eye contact. All of these behaviors, both positive and negative, are “micromessages” with real, immediate impacts on their recipients.

This morning I attended MicroInequities: The Power of Small taught by Stephen Young of Insight Education Systems. The four-hour class considered the power of micromessages. It was billed as “diversity training,” but that classification limits the course’s true scope. Although micromessages expose our attitudes, those attitudes can be based on more than diversity issues. Witness our microinequity problems with our spouses, with our children.

The class introduces the concept of micromessages and gives a less emotionally charged vocabulary to discuss them than the old standby, “I don’t like your tone, young man.” Young should be an actor; he’s able to entertainingly demonstrate multiple micromessages in a single sentence or transition from unspoken “hi” to full-body leer.

Young concludes the training with the proposition that as observers of microinequities, we have the power and the responsibility change our behavior and attempt to influence the behavior of those around us.

If MicroInequities is available to you, I recommend your attending. According to Young, a book having the same title will be available this April.

The State of Blogging

The Pew Internet & American Life Project has released a report on the state of blogging.

By the end of 2004 blogs had established themselves as a key part of online culture. Two surveys by the Pew Internet & American Life Project in November established new contours for the blogosphere: 8 million American adults say they have created blogs; blog readership jumped 58% in 2004 and now stands at 27% of internet users; 5% of internet users say they use RSS aggregators or XML readers to get the news and other information delivered from blogs and content-rich Web sites as it is posted online; and 12% of internet users have posted comments or other material on blogs. Still, 62% of internet users do not know what a blog is.

8,000,000 blogs. If you had asked a month ago (before I started this blog), even I could have said I had created a blog and had posted comments. Some time ago, I was curious about blogs so I created a Blogger blog and posted a couple of experimental comments. I suspect quite a few other people did the same when they downloaded Google’s toolbar. However, even a lot of people doing something once doesn’t a movement make. Attempting to extrapolate from “at least once in a lifetime” events is risky and likely to result in statistical nonsense.

58% readership jump. Only a 58% readership jump in 2004?! In other words, blog readership did not even double during a year when blogs played a major role in Rathergate/memogate, Christmas in Cambodia, and even Dean’s early success? Doesn’t seem likely.

62% of internet users do not know what a blog is. This statistic is believable. Even at the high-tech company where I work, many people don’t know what a blog is (though that statistic is rapidly changing as the president/COO has recently started an internal blog).

The internet is filled with excitement like the mid ’90’s, when people were creating their own web pages. The difference is, blog content is dynamic. Although many have tried blogging and read blogs, the potential for growth is amazing.